All I Know & Love by Judith Frank

"For years, Matthew Greene and Daniel Rosen have enjoyed a quiet domestic life together in Northampton, MA.  Opposites in many ways, they have grown together and made their relationship work.  But when they learn that Daniel's twin brother and sister-in-law have been killed in a bombing in Jerusalem, their lives are suddenly, utterly transformed.  In dealing with their families and the need to make a decision about who will raise the deceased couple's two children, both Matthew and Daniel are confronted with challenges that strike at the very heart of their relationship

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